Forgiveness is a very misunderstood term.
The hardest part is thinking that you are letting someone off the hook by letting go of your indignation and pain. Indignation is a bad neighborhood) You don't want to live there!.
No matter how great the pain you are carrying; If you allow that to be "your story", your Identity, you will draw more of the same because that has become who you are choosing to be each moment because, you have forgotten who you are!
You are a Soul, a Powerful being. The point is to stand in that knowledge. It absolutely does NOT MEAN EXCUSING BAD BEHAVIOR. Nor that you allow anyone to victimize you.
Forgiveness means you let go of the negativity that will Poison and exhaust you and make you even more vulnerable. People can do all their crazy stuff because of the fear and pain. If you carry it around all day everyday you have Internalized an enemy, a "Shadow Being."
Anyone who has wounded you has a black cord attach to you until the wound is healed. Even if they have past on or the attachment is from another life time.
Through these cords etheric mucous is generated feed by your negative emotions, your dark energy. Forgiveness is a tool to disengage the cords so that the wound can heal. I can help you with other techniques.
Forgiveness means that you refuse hang on to the past, start fresh each day and develop an objective self that is in no way connected to the perpetrator of injury.
You can learn more from the Dog Whisperer in one show than I can explain.
http://www.hulu.com/dog-whisperer
They probably have or can get a circulating copy of a video at your local Library as well as,
Eckhart Tolle "Living the Liberated Life, and Dealing with the Pain Body." It helps in Learning how to step out of the insanity; So you' be able to recuperate and become strong enough, to let them spin out of control while you remain centered.
There Was a TV show called "Being Erica", that is available on HULU.com and probably through Net Flicks. The show walks her through the Process of Disengagement.
This can change. The story of Jesus is not the crucifixion symbolized by the cross! It is the Resurrection symbolized by the flight of the dove.
This was channeled for a client.
Disclaimer: I do not claim to have mastered these techniques. Their practice is an on going process of development.
Cecly
